I was definitely feeling the double vodka crans I was downing, but I wasn’t overly drunk.Īnd then I meet a guy at the bar. So naturally, a few of my girlfriends and I found ourselves at the local watering hole on a Saturday night in the summer. “I was freshly 19 at the time and was *officially* legal drinking age in British Columbia.
It was very awkward but not entirely unsatisfying.īut, about four months later, when we were a little more confident and comfortable with sex, my hymen finally tore and we realized we hadn’t been engaging in any actual penetration-my poor boyfriend was so worried about hurting me that he’d only been putting the tip in for months.” -Laura (She/Her) The one straight out of “ Work from Home“ We drove back out an hour and a half to the same hotel, paid (I’m sure the hotel staff knew exactly what we were about to do), and nervously got down to business.
A few weeks later, I finally felt confident enough to give it the old college try. When we finally pulled up to the hotel, I was so nervous that my parents would somehow find out about my pre-marital teenage sex-I had very strict Italian parents-that I couldn’t stop crying, so we decided to try again another time. Unfortunately, this meant we had to drive *all* the way out to Brampton, since cheap hotels that aren’t terrifying aren’t in vast supply in Toronto. We’d basically done everything except ‘P-in-V’ sex at this point, and decided that in order to make sure we didn’t run the risk of either of our parents walking in on us, we’d do it in a hotel preferably the cheapest we could find that didn’t need a credit card payment, far away from both of our homes and wasn’t overrun with roaches. We’d been dating for about a year at this point, and it was also his first time. “My first time was with my high school boyfriend, who was two years older than me, when I was 16 or 17. After he took the bedsheets off and into the dryer, we decided to go eat something and he asked me, ‘So…is there anything you want me to say? Any three words?’ I don’t know what the hell he was thinking, but to ease the awkwardness I blurted out: ‘I want cheesecake.'” - Maiesha (they/them) The one that included travel I remember standing in the living room, staring out into the backyard as the white bedsheets lightly blew in the wind and thinking: ‘Man, should I take a picture of that?’ Like, this is my ‘virginity’ moment, white bed sheets hanging on a dryer line and blowing in the wind. Then he hung up the bedsheets outside in his backyard because he said they’d dry faster.
#Sweet teen gay sex how to
He lived with his family and they weren’t home so he quickly took off the sheets and went to hand wash them because he didn’t know how to use his own washing machine (ha ha). When I was getting off the bed he realized that I had bled onto his sheets, which made me pretty emotional and embarrassed. After a miscommunication with getting it in (the whole ‘I’m in,’ ‘Really?!’ thing), we only lasted about 10 minutes because it hurt so much. “It was in the spring, during the day, with my then-boyfriend. The so-bad-they’re-good stories about losing your virginity… The one with the bed sheets Here, friends of FLARE share their cringe-worthy tales of losing their virginity, alongside some *actually* super sweet ones. However your first time went-the good, the bad and the ugly-it’s yours. James, no one’s first time looks like *that*.)
Everyone’s first time looks and feels different.
To each their own, and you know what? That’s totally OK. Maybe you had a poetic moment of reflection post-coital, maybe you tried to Carmen Sandiego it and travelled to another city, maybe you lost it above a seafood restaurant and can never eat fish and chips the same way again, or maybe it was actually really freakin’ lovely. More likely it was awkward AF, uncomfortable and *anything* but picture perfect. when I lost my virginity I had to show up to my am shift a few hours later at my gym job to wash dirty towels Arya loses her virginity and a few hours later kills one of the most evil villains in game of thrones.